I'm weird cause I'm over 35 and single. First off men in their 30s still can date women in their 20s, Am I gonna to date a 25 year old? For what, what can he do for me?I'm not as thin anymore, I don't have a kid but the last date I was on he made the statement that he wants kids and being 45 with a 10 year old doesn't seem appealing. My pool is small, there's literally no water in my pool. So, instead of judging understand we have nothing to float on in these pools.