The Awkward Dreadhead Podcast

I'm someone who reads alot. Maybe I read to much but my take on the subject at hand is. Going back to the Victorian days men and women's physical differences were emphasized so yes men and women took up roles. Way back when life wasn't easy like it is now. And as a woman physically and mentally, cutting men out all together it would be hard on your own. Men did take a patriarchal view on women and I believe women wanted that. They wanted to be safe, they wanted their children to be safe, they wanted to be provided for. I believe men did what we could to make easy for women to live. But one day women woke up and said "I'm not scared anymore", "I can do things on my know", I can be independent", "I want what you have men". But you can't have what we have because you can't/don't do what we do. And that's where the problem lies is women don't respect men anymore. I think men need to take the throne again and become the patriarchy that it once was.

I agree with Charles that sex is a way women show they like the person they're talking to, but if you don't want to get bamboozled out of sex constantly by men. One thing women should do is have a no sex policy for 4 to 5 dates, but in between and during these dates reassure the guy that you like him, make time for him, do things for him, be considerate of him, make him feel wanted and cared about. Women aren't the women of old. Men have an issue with the constant output and never knowing what the outlook could be. Basic premise, men want sex, women want time and resources. The good men want sex, the bad men want sex. Figure out within those dates what kind guy he is and proceed from there. I'm an old lady I love sitting here with my cat listening to the dating podcasts, but I have strong opinions on women who are in their 30s single, using the excuse that men suck, I'm healing, I'm working on myself. That's crap honey. You have no relationship skills, you suck at relationships, you suck at communications. I use to think it was the men causing problems in dating, it's definitely you women causing the problems now. You think you're men, you think you can do what you want with no repercussions, no crash landing end goal. Believe me you will quickly be 40, 50, 60 years old still blaming men, wondering why you're still single. I know I write paragraphs when I write in, but I believe there's an ignorance in the air you young people don't call out.

I'm from Nigeria to as well Charles. I've traveled to different countries even countries where women seemingly have less power they don't say things like "I hate men", "men are trash". I've never seen the amount of issues men face when dealing with a woman in America vs other countries. It's astonishing.

Something women need to realize is corporation,s and organizations that are run by men go out of there way to show women they respect them, care about them and want them to succeed. Male sports teams have breast cancer month, they do ad promos supporting single mothers, teachers. There was a video of men walking in heels with the ad copy saying "walk a mile in her shoes". Name one, just one female organization, sport team, a female led business that goes out of there way to target and support men? I'll wait.

Women have issues with men because in this capitalist society you impoverish women. We don't have economic freedom.