The Awkward Dreadhead Podcast
General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: icahanotu on December 01, 2021, 06:50:27 am
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What do you consider a friend Charles. I think I get what you're saying but it's a thin line. Be honest with one's self. Does this person have your phone number, are they just Facebook friends, are they in a relationship with someone you know. That being said there are some girls who are just the homies. I think Charles is right but it really depends on the situation. Every girl I'm "friends" don't call or text me on a normal basis. We are friends but not close friends.
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Ben, why does sex have to be such a bad thing in your eyes. If a girl and I end up hooking up quickly, it doesn't necessarily mean I've written her off. All she needs to do to maintain my interest is…be awesome. Be interesting and interested in me.
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@griffenparks I am a **** dude and your speech is full of hate. I shouldn't have to put up with constant dicks pics it ridiculous. I shouldn't partake in the app because all some of you guys want is sex. Bullshit.
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@b.boy sorry but I just think you need friends. This is a conversation I feel straight women have with straight men. Again this is a hook app for gay men, if you're a dude act like it and stop trying to change the parameters.
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@griffenparks grindr is really the only legitimate dating app for our community. Other apps there isn't much there.
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@b.boy you are the exact definition of why people don't like trans people. That's not what it's for, go somewhere else and find that don't come here and get pissed off at us. It's like going to burger King and getting pissed they don't serve fried chicken
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@griffenparks No...why can't I just commune with other trans or gay people? Why must I be slammed with dick pics and constantly asked for explicit photos. I should be able to just come there and chill.
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I'm a new listener too. Technically I've not listened yet but reading the comments. As a gay man one thing I've hated so much is trans people especially transmen trying to change the spaces people have. Grindr use to be about gay or down low dudes trying to have sex now transmen want to come in there with they let's be friends malarkey. Most people don't hate trans cause they trans. It's cause you all come into our areas with dumb stuff and it's annoying. That's why so many of us get pissed with you guys. Granted you might want to take what I'm saying as throwaway because it's about sex. Look at the bigger picture and don't be so narrow-minded.
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@finnthechin I echo that statement why are they trying to make people uncomfortable because they want to change. Some people just aren't comfortable with that.
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Lol I'm sorry I keep hearing stuff. To clarify ben if a man isn't willing to wait for a girl sexually it means he doesn't like her?
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One more thing. It's weird to hear Ryan ask "why is it weird for woman to see a ****" as if for the past 100s of years women have shown how weirded out or cringe it is to see a naked man or ****. This has been a thing for centuries now all of a sudden trans people are a thing and it's okay for a **** to pop up in a females space. Complete bullshit. Don't switch **** up now.
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New Listener Guys...I was listening to an old episode where Jessica says men are intimidated by women who make more money then them. Are you saying that with all the challenges men face dating a woman who makes 6 figures is an intimidating scenario? I never knew that this was something that would frighten me off?
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I don't think people should even ask you guys for advice. You don't answer it, the girls live in a fairy tale, Charles is misogynistic and what the hell is Ben talking about half the time.
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You want to know why we discuss the bad and not the good of child support is because child support ruins people's life's, it puts people in jail, keeps them away from parents, puts restrictions on you as a parent. I know a guy who won custody of his kids. The mother became broke and filed for welfare claiming she still had the kids. The courts didn't even check if what she was saying was true they called him back into court. You can blame the woman all you want she is a puzzle piece. This is a horrific system that is used to strip men and give wealth to women.
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What's a simp rian
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I don't know where to put this comment but if Charles takes everyone but black people because the others make him more money. It sounds more like a business decision versus him being racist to black people?
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Men should stop talking about the friend zone. Talk about how you pretend to be our friends just to sleep with us
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"I'm eating potato skins"
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I got a huge dose of biology when I started using bumble. This is my opinion but I thought with bumble I got no replies back or if I did they were from guys who I'm sorry came off beta. My year on bumble made me realize men are the hunters, women are not and sorry ladies but I'm on the men's side with this. We tried to change biology and it doesn't work.
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I think it's hilarious women who talks **** about they boyfriend or says they don't need a man. When a man gets aggressive with them the first thing they say is I'm gonna get my husband, boyfriend or brother. Man you wouldn't make it one month on this earth if men just disappeared.
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I get you don't have trans people on the show but I have to say something. It's fine to think you're a man maybe even call you one but when they don't act like or look like a dude it's hard to take it serious. Some trans men say you there's no suck thing as acting like a man or a women. That's bullshit, they just say that cause they don't know and can't act like a man. Transgender women dress like and act like women while transmen try to change what being a man is and that pisses me off more than anything. Will a straight woman date a guy who acts like a girl.....**** no.....
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I'm not dating a girl who had sex with a bunch of guys. If in conversation I get the feeling she has then I'm moving on. Ben can have the chick who gargled 50 dudes cum shots. I'm not doing that, it also says something about you as a man that you would accept that. There's a reason why men can sleep with millions of women and they still flock to him because women like men who can conquer, it's biology. I'm not gonna talk **** about you because I don't want you guys to ban me but you be saying some off the wall stuff as a dude.
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I never thought I'd date men and be happy but it's true men are way better to date then women.
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Wow. Jessica sure was struggling trying to think her way out of what women are taught how to treat men. Mental gymnastics got your core strong huh.
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I'm very happy to see men standing up for themselves and no longer allowing double standards to hold them down. I'm 37 and this treatment from women is ridiculous and shouldn't be okay. Yes Chelsea there are men who say **** women and go there own way.
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You guys are such full of ****. Please tell me how all of a sudden I can bring up sex on the first date without the opposite sex saying I'm a creep.
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I've been all over the world. Met so many amazing people. I'm 52 and never once have I ever seen a straight single man with a bunch of female friends and barely no male friends. Even gay guys have male friends, stop showing your emotions because you where called out
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When you deal with constant bullshit in dating you start to dish it out. I don't care about me lying to get sex. Nobody cares when she uses me for money, self confidence and attention. The dating market breeds this environment so unless I meet someone who comes off 100% genuine I'm all out for me
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I like listening to Ben but sometimes it does sound like you don't have much experience in dating. I had to leave the city I'm from because I had my hoe phase there. Now all the men and their moms are like stay away from her, don't date her she a hoe. If you'll look past my past Ben I'll got out with you but not many men will.
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Does it really matter if men don't report crimes aimed at them? Men are not taken seriously, Ben is **** laughing at the will Smith situation. People don't take it seriously and the severity doesn't matter because it's not okay to attack men and turn a blind eye to it cause he's a man. That's toxic masculinity.
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I did the whole split the check move with 3 dates and it's the best advice I've ever been given. I don't even care if the date went well she can pay her own meal and if we start dating seriously then we can think about me opening my wallet.
Thanks Guys
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Since Jessica is beating around the bush I'll say what I was taught. I was taught by my mother and grandmother to cook, make sure your man is ready to take on the world going into work, support him on everything. I agree this is not taught in most households and I'm the exception. I don't get why Jessica is just mentioning general things as if other humans aren't taught to be nice to other humans.
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Man, he's laying the truth down and hurting feelings. Of course you had "single guy" friends when you was single. If they was real friends they'd still be around and he'd know about them right?
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What are women doing that is so mentally draining on dating apps?
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Girls don't want the drama of other girls but don't mind being friends with men who want to sleep with them 🤔 SUS
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if you're a guy and you keep getting friend-zoned by women and you stay those women's friends you're the reason women go on dating apps looking for friends. Also it says a lot about you as a guy
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If a girl expects for me to pay, what's wrong with me expecting sex
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All I have to say is if you're a trans man and want to be considered a man. Do man ****, stop trying to change the definition. Do man **** and I'll respect it.
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Women can use their sexuality for income just like men use their advantages in the world and workplace.
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Simple, men are being voted into office more than women plan and simple. Who cares if not all the women are voting them in. Do you know the percentage of women voting Mr Ben the Stat guy. The dumbest thing I've heard you say and I listen to this podcast alot
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Who cares if we live in a patriarchy. If we live in a matriarchy would it be better? Stop bitching, vote women in if you want or shut the **** up. Be mad at women who don't run for office or have shitty policy. The mayor of Illinois is a gay lesbian woman and her policies are garbage to me, I'm allowed to think that and run a campaign to vote her out. Whenever women get involved and people attack them it's "ohh let me come to her rescue" but when they attack men it's just politics. Grow a pair
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When you deal with constant bullshit in dating you start to dish it out. I don't care about me lying to get sex. Nobody cares when she uses me for money, self confidence and attention. The dating market breeds this environment so unless I meet someone who comes off 100% genuine I'm all out for me
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Charles laugh is **** annoying. The girls do be on bullshit a bunch, go to the club and dance around and Guys will come to you? What are you talking about. What do you know about what guys are thinking. And Ryan never **** talks
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Jamal's answer for everything is travel or go on vacation. Can't find a man travel, bored at work travel. I'm good.
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Here's the real question. If you call someone you consider a friend proposing sex and they accept. Are they a friend.
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Chelsea is my favorite person on this show but if Charles doesn't know any of your guy friends I think it proves his point that most single men and women aren't going to be just friends.
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Twerking neck is my new jam
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Why do you guys forget the comment or question after talking about it for only 5 mins. What kinda of ADD is that.
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Well first off if you're an older gay man trying to find love in the gay bar. Reverse your thinking. Apps are great for gay guys. I'm bi and I tell straight guys to stay away from dating apps and gay men to run towards them.
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don't know why I listen to you guys. Very random, Ben is smart and weirdly funny, Jamal...man I don't know. Charles is blunt as ****, Jessica.....man and Chelsea holy pop tarts she says I don't know just to fill in sentences. Man, where did you guys come from 😱😅
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What's up with Jamal and this always travel ****. If I live in Florida and I travel somewhere and meet someone how the **** am I going to connect with them if they are far away
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People had way more respect for the institution on marriage people don't now. I'm 65. I've been married to my husband for going 35 years. I've waken up and hated him not wanting to see him but what people don't understand is get over yourself. You ain't special, you picked someone to dominate the world with. If you decided to leave fine leave but don't whine to other people about how there aren't any good people out here. Humble yourself and reset. It'll work itself out.
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Friendship between men and women is very touchy and should be judged individually. I will say two main thing that can define a friendship is communication and the time you spend with them. If you guys only talk on Facebook posts or never call each other to hangout that's not a friend. It's someone you know. I'm sorry ladies but most of us don't have guy friends like you think we do.
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If Charles had female friends that he texted but you didn't know about would that sit okay with Chelsea?
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I was in a band with Charles back in Atlanta when we were 19 and I still feel like we are friends even though we haven't talked in years. Yes Charles I listen to your podcast lol but I'm glad to know you were bi cause honestly it was very weird when we went to house parties after class and you curved girls. We all thought you had some sugar in your tank or something.
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I know several women with male friends. What I see is women asking their male friends to help move this or carry this, oh I'm with my male friends so I'm safe from other guys. Whether you admit or not many women use their male friends
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As a man I was taught to open the door for women, pay for date's. Nobody gave a concrete answer on how women are taught to treat men. Instead of just admitting women aren't taught you tap dance around the topic.
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I'm confused Ben. 51% voted a person in office and 49% didn't. Sorry but what the **** does that mean? 51% of the population voted a person in meaning some men did and some women did do please explain what you're talking about
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That's so **** true, you guys did say when a guy brings up sex it's all he wants now it's all of a sudden okay....you Got got
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I'm starting to see a possible trend here and on other platforms that talk about male/female social issues. Females get upset and lash out when a truth bomb is thrown on them. It's hard to hear they are only friends with guys for attention or that they really don't have guy friends just guy acquaintances. Some women know that guys want to **** them and uses them. I completely agree that if you'r friends want to have sex with you then he's not really a friend. It's also highly pathetic and deplorable that you're friends with someone who you know just wants to **** you.
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