The Awkward Dreadhead Podcast
General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: icahanotu on July 11, 2022, 01:05:17 pm
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Judging a woman with a high body count is more than just they slept with several people. It can show they make bad many decision in life, might have an issue with commitment and reports have shown the more partners a woman has the more likely they are to be divorced.
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This woman sat on a podcast and said "I don't know if I could sleep with Ryan Goslin", when men are simply trying to sleep with regular women is such a privileged statement to make it made me sick.
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To all the ladies if a man asked you your body count would you be truthful?
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I spoke to my wife about wanting to sleep with other people and she was very angry. It was never spoke of again. We are still married, I have cheated on her. I could divorce her, but tearing the family apart isn't what I'm wanting to do.
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There are people who find out they're non monogamous later in life. When they are married with kids for example. They don't want to lose their business, family so they cheat. Most women are not okay with the idea. It's like finding out you're gay and not knowing how to approach it.
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Chelsea thank you, thank you, thank you. Women overlook so many men, chase the 10% and then complain when that 10% doesn't want them. I'm definitely the overlooked guy
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It's hard to imagine a guy is able to sleep with a bunch of women, but not be good at sex. How would he be able to continue getting sex?
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Hello Charles, it's Erika. Don't worry Charles girlfriend he didn't break my heart he's an old college buddy. And if you don't want people from your past finding your podcast don't posting it in old Facebook groups do do brains. I'm gonna call you out though Charles. When Charles knew he had a girl eating out of his palm, he'd
ghost her, completely ignored her and just stop talking to her. Other dumb girls knew that and they'd still talk to him. I don't know if it was manipulation, but he had this super power and definitely misused it. Also Charles use to walk pass girls with your shirt off on purpose strutting his pecs with his shades and jewelry on. I was like boy cover them nipples up. I'm just messing with you Chaz, but straight up don't act like you wasn't out here 2012 in class acting like the black Zack morris. Also you gay, I so knew it.
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I want to applaud Chelsea because I to had to learn how to be a better spouse. My question is do women nowadays know how to be a good spouse.
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Some of you might have delusional aspects of what goes on in a marriage and the needs. First off men divorcing women when they have money, kids and a life within it isn't easy so please stop behaving as if "oh she isn't making you happy sexually divorce her" yeah no it's not that easy. I'm a man, I'm married, my circle is mainly married men. Men get bored sexually very fast with there wives. It goes from feeling good, to okay, to doing it to stay faithful, to now I'm bored. Only thing is some men are careful about who they express this to. I told my wife I'm sexually frustrated and she asked what she could do, I said nothing really. Now she feels like ****, she isn't okay with other partners. You think men don't try to work on it, don't try to figure something out. Charles is right a ****, is a **** it just gets looser as you age. I don't know your ages, but it's very frustrating to listen to people talk and they don't know what they are talking about. Correct me if I'm wrong, but are Ryan and Ben in long term relationships? Whoever the **** Marcus is dude sounds white as ****. How long have you been married? Doesn't sound very long. I don't have warped ideas because I'd like to have sex with other women besides my wife. Charles you need to have a podcast of just men all anonymous so there can be complete honesty not these fable people continue to spread.
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Onions, garlic are foods that make me smell bad down. I don't agree with other women telling other women that douching is bad because douching is not all around bad. If you're doing it every day yes douching is bad, but if you're doing it once a week or once a month there's nothing wrong with that.
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I want to add a tadbit more. As a woman sometimes I feel undervalued not necessarily by individuals treating me as such it's hard to explain. I just feel Society Sometimes undervalues women or we're just on this Earth to display for men or be apart of men's systems and if we don't like it oh well. Maybe I'm crazy. It's just always something when it comes to women and it drives me insane.
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I douche to help with discharge and odor. Some of my guy friends have told me they've slept with girls that had bad odor and just kept quite because they don't want them to get mad.
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I'm 20. We deal with depression, eating disorders, cyber bullies, cancel culture, being a victim of something, social media just to name a few. At the end of all that I'm not thinking about sex.
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The friendszone is manipulation tactic women use to extract resources from men. If you're a woman who does this you're a shitty person. If you're a man who allows this to happen you're a ****.
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It sounds like you all are coming up with excuses to give why your **** stinks. Just don't have a stank ****. Guys aren't going in the bedroom thinking "oh her pH balance is off, oh she ate something that makes it smell". Guys are thinking "her **** Stank, I'm gonna **** then very call again.
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I'd like to know each of the men's sexual experience on this channel. To not understand that a woman's **** can get old after using it over time is pretty pathetic. I can understand women making excuses and coming up with reason how to change it up. But a man regurgitating that same sentiment breeds inexperienced and low knowledge. This isn't to be rude I just believe this topic is never talked about because it hurts feelings, but at least if you all are going to speak on it don't dismiss men who go through it as if they're experience with it is fixed with counseling.
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I've tried talking to girls, but there's no reaction back so it's a bit disheartening. Eventually it's just funnier to hang with my dawgs.
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There's a study that says millennials and GenZ have the most anxiety and depression of any generation. Do you think that's why men are having issues with sex?
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I'm 20. We deal with depression, eating disorders, cyber bullies, cancel culture, being a victim of something, social media just to name a few. At the end of all that I'm not thinking about sex.
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I douche to help with discharge and odor. Some of my guy friends have told me they've slept with girls that had bad odor and just kept quite because they don't want them to get mad.
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This ties back in to your last episode about white culture. A long time ago people stayed together now people divorce at a very high rate. Single mothers on the rise and people in their late 40s and 50s experiencing depression and anxiety. Don't you think this current culture of the way people get married or get together is affecting people in the future?
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Coming to America from Pakistan LGBT community isn't really a thing so when I ask questions it seems like I get anger from people when I'm just asking question and possibly challenging anything I disagree with. School should be about learning not suppressing others points of view.
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Onions, garlic certain types of foods make me smell bad down there so I'm going to douche. I don't agree with other women telling other women that douching is bad. If you're doing it every day yes douching is bad but if you're doing it once a week once a month there's nothing wrong with that
.. if you are letting dirty men have sex with you then a BV should be the last thing you are thinking about. think about the caliber of men you are sleeping with
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I promise I want comment again, but I don't have any hard feeling towards Charles. I like your podcast and I still think you're a cool person. I just wish you was honest and it makes sense that you'd be a **** boi because you were too much of a smooth talker. Walking in Pins and making friends with random people I should've known something was up. Anyways I won't comment about you anymore don't want your girlfriend being jealous. Good luck.
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Does Ben have Sex? A user manual wtf? Doesn't that just spell out inexperienced.
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I just want to know why would you manipulate females? Why not be straight up.
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If you fell in love with a girl and then she told you her body count was high would you still date her or would you dismiss her?
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Having to get a marriage renewal every other year for me would be perfect. I want to leave my wife and this would definitely give me an easy. I'm not worried about finances or anything. A year from the date I would separate everything. My own apartment everything and when the date comes not renew. Please pass this law. Staying on a different subject I haven't had sex with my wife for over a year because she drinks and gets drunk. Highly a turn off. Yes I communicated with her Jessica and Chelsea. You say don't cheat, **** that. A woman wouldn't want this because now she'll have to be on her own with no help.
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I'm 26 and never had a girlfriend. If I knew how to talk to girls id probably not be so lonely. Honestly girls are mean and expect to much from a stranger they mistakenly swiped right on just to ghost him before talking to him. If Charles is a **** boy teach me how to be one because this always being lonely crap gets depressing.
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Hey Ladies and you white knight beta males. How about you shut the **** up and listen instead of always telling us why we are wrong or bad or whatever BS you want to call us. Several husbands are just existing in our marriages, we are there cause we don't want our lives destroyed, our kids taken from us. Some of us care about our wives, but in a friendship way, some of us are just bored with this life and want a relationship that we don't have to be locked into forever. **** down on us all you want, but if you've been married for awhile especially with kids it's the most boring life ever.
#yupsinthehouse
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Marriage is the lottery statistically speaking you probably won't win, but if you do it's great and amazing. I'm a divorce lawyer and marriage is a legal contract that most people don't understand until divorce and yes much of it can be more beneficial to the woman. I take marriage seriously and it's weird how people spend more time on a wedding vs what legal papers you're signing.
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This is a common thread of people not caring about men and what they feel. I've been married for going on 20 years with two kids. I don't want to be in this marriage anymore. I don't hate my wife, but I wish I could move on. I can't though so I have to put on a face and stick through for my kids. My life is boring, work, home, kids activities on the weekend then back to work. My life is mundane. Communication got it, we've done that and nothing has changed. Only space I can share my thoughts with is a private facebook group with other men having the same feelings.
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One thing you didn't mention was mental disorders related to sex. Maybe someone felt there was only love through sex, filling an emotional void, sexual abuse, maybe it's a way for women to validate themselves or even a very high and active libido for the reason of multiple sex partners.
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You know Amanda said that her boyfriend really wants a more traditional woman someone who cooks cleans and washes his clothes. Then you look at the comments and you see how unhappy men are. it makes sense because men want something and they're not really getting it in their marriages the woman doesn't want to do it and the man is just unhappy so you said it right there why most men are unhappy in married.
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I've talked, cried shouted from the roof tops with my spouse about why I'm unhappy and it's not helped. Renewable Marriage license would give me the options to leave and not be stuck with someone I'm unhappy with.
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Until death or our five-year renewable license period do we part ways. This would take away so much money from lawyers and be given to arbitrators. It would get complicated with marriages that are based on assets and money, but we would definitely be royally **** if this every passed. I'm not for it, but if kids are involved than no you have to stick it out.
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Inherently there's nothing different between a man bringing in 100k vs a woman bringing in 100k. But the thing is most women aren't bringing the bacon like there husband. You said it yourself Ryan women aren't working the high paying jobs so yes it doesn't matter who brings in the money just make sure that the one who isn't making money they handle the house.
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My boyfriend has a high body count and I didn't really mind and most of the women I've talked to don't really mind or care, but men do care. It harkens back to what Chelsea said "women don't know what men want". If a man says they don't like a high body count find a man that does.
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My body count is high and I regret it because it does effect how men look at me. One thing I'll admit is women won't tell you the truth then you get out in the world and you see what it's really like.
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I'm a little on the men's side with this. We can't say men don't share their feelings or open up emotionally, then when they do you say they have warped minds.And to the Marcus character that I could barley hear. If you're going to say men want a woman's body count to be low because they're insecure than you are definitely a beta and using shaming language isn't going to make men date a hoe. I'm against promiscuity on both sides but definitely with females. To all the females listening if you think you're not emotionally bonding with someone sexually than society and your body is lying to you. Don't let it destroy you.
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Thank you Abby for bringing up how shitty men talk about their wives as if wives aren't so acid with the tongue about their husbands.
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Congrats to Ben for trying to pivot a question. Yes, we should have to renew a marriage license every 3 years. It gives equal power to men and make easier for couples to disengage if they want to. I would go as far to say that couples can disengage free and clear the first 5 years. Meaning you leave with what you came in with.
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Whoever Amanda is should use a less divisive word than misogynistic. That means you hate women. I'm pretty sure Charles doesn't hate women?
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If a woman has a body count of 20 men at 30 yrs old. I would like to know if they where relationships or flings because relationships are different. If you're a woman with more flings than relationships. It says alot about you.
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This thinking dismantles the traditional idea of marriage because you shouldn't be given an easy out to leave. You should be forced to stay and work it out.
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Back in the day men had to establish paternity and DNA wasn't involved until 1970. Men didn't want hoes so they could feel comfortable that their children were actually theirs. Don't be upset now that men still use that radar. 1 out of 5 men are unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs. Look it up so if you're a hoe you got to go.
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This goes to several points you guys touched on. A prenup should have to be signed in all marriages to force individuals to speak about finances. Just because someone is exciting and sexually fun doesn't make them a good spouse. I'm not marrying a chick with a high body count. I find it disgusting women who are having flings. I believe a woman should find herself sexually with her husband or at best long term boyfriend. At that very same breath women who are horrible in bed is worst than bed bugs so you have to learn how to ride that line.
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If you've never had a female stalk you off good dick then your dick ain't ****.
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This is a phenomenon that has been brought up for many decades but never really spoken about publicly. Men losing the sensation they feel when having sex with a long time partner. Their mind is not warped, nothing is wrong with them they have just been with their individual partner for so long that they no longer feel sensation when having sex with that partner. Please do not shame these men about this. I am a doctor and I also counsel men about marriage and this topic is something that comes up often. There's usually nothing that can be done. Some wives get vaginal reconstruction, but we don't have the statistics to say it works and the woman has to be willing to do it. I would also like to add that the individual named Ben has a very pompous attitude that he knows everything. If you haven't been in a long term relationship which it sounds like you never have I'd sit this one out.
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At my job the owner's son just started working here about 6 months ago. He has no experience in our industry yet he got pushed to the very top of the totem pole. Most of the employees do not respect him, people do not respect individuals who get things very easily or handed to them man or woman. If you are a woman sex is given to you like candy. Use this in circumstance in life people don't respect others who don't have to work for something.
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