The Awkward Dreadhead Podcast
General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: icahanotu on May 31, 2022, 11:09:21 am
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I'm 56 and I've been in a long term relationship for 2 years. It's hard finding a guy and Jessica giving uneducated advice about how to date after 30 is just noise. It's hard, it's not easy, your looks fade, you gain weight. Men are visual so whether you like it or not your looks still matter. It was hard just getting a date. Please speak in knowledge and reality. Pretending as if it's not hard finding a partner the older you get as a woman is just irresponsible. Ladies, learn what men want. If you don't want to give them what they want you can cry to your friends about how men are trash, but it won't help, you'll still be lonely.
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There are times Ben says something so amazing and smart, then fix his lips to say something that sounds so misinformed as if he's been sheltered his whole life and doesn't understand people or just life in general. First, claiming to not understand culture is blatantly retarded. Second, only someone with a non-athletic background would say something as dumb as "kids want to be famous athletes". Someone wanting to do something with their life and your first response is that's dumb? You need to become more cultured, educated and develop a better sense of people and the world. Third, there's no way you date that often giving the advice you do.
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Mister Dreadhead I'd like to lay out how much full of **** I think you are and here are reasons why the patriarchy is horrible. By the way you should be better being an African American man.
Reflectiveness - upholding the norms of masculinity is that men like you don’t often put effort into questioning or reflecting on such norms.
Competition - the patriarchal norms of masculinity is the tendency for you to be in constant competition with other men.
Status Quo - the patriarchy allows men to remain comfortable in their privileges and dominance while never having to question the issues women and non-binary people have to deal with in relation to their comfort.
Hierarchy - men often don’t realize how they built a society that puts them ahead of women and non-binary people. The patriarchy has supported this notion that men are inherently better than others, simply by virtue of being a man. Yet you tav transmen as overly emotional species.
You support Toxic masculinity, **** Culture and the ignorance that men are better. Your podcast is hate speech and I will report it everytime I see. I will get other people to report.
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Ryan and other people say gender is a construct. If that's the case everything is a construct and everything you believe in is a construct. So, I guess I can believe what I want and not have to worry about whatever BS you children come up with.
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Interesting the people who don't care about trans women competing with biological women are people who don't and can't play sports.
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I understand I'm probably not the only woman who thinks this, but I've finally come to the conclusion that women make excuses for other women's bad decisions. The girls say society forces women to care for the kids while the guy goes in the other room and eats cheetos, a guy kept talking me into sex and instead of leaving I have sex with him then complain it's coercion, I wear a short dress and men stare so now I've been harassed, a girl can't decide over being Gang banged or leaving the situation, I get paid less not because I picked a low paying job but because men are keeping me down. I'm speaking to the females in the audience. Stop listening to your females friend who tell you it's everyone else's fault. You can do what you want, when you want, how you want. Will it be tough maybe, will it be hard maybe. Life is tough and it doesn't owe you a damn thing. Quit making excuses. Chelsie Jessica, please stop making excuses for us it helps in no way.
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Ryan and Ben said red pill is full of disgusting men and horrible views. Can you drop a link and tell me where you saw this. I believe you didn't see anything red pill and you're espousing something you didn't really see.
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What are your thoughts on feminism in 2022. You guys never really discuss it in depth.
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Is dating really necessary. Let me give context before the crying begins. If you're looking into being in a long term commitment or marriage why not ask these questions from the begin and have a purpose. Meet each others families sooner rather than later.
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Heterosexual friendships are so weird and complicated. Two gay guys aren't hanging out together as friends unless that was verbally established. Especially if they're single. That's established immediately, straight people play non verbal cue games. Ain't nobody got time.
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One other thing..............When it comes to trans people. When did a feeling replace reality, I don't have any issue with trans people, but I guess if we use common sense when did having a feeling up end reality? If someone has been diagnosed with Gender dysphoria. Let's treat it and go from there. Shouldn't we diagnose something medically before people treat it or self medicate.
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Do you feel us women ask for different possibly unbalanced treatment. Johnny depp case really has me questioning are women this manipulative
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I've been dating my guy for 2 years and I want to get married, but whenever I mention it he'll tell me let's talk about it later and we never do. Before Jessica blah blah blah's me with her communication advice can someone just give me an idea of what I could do. I'm seriously thinking about buying a ring and asking him.
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Are men in society supposed to protect women and children?
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Is dating yourself a healthy lifestyle
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Yes I'm a female, I didn't want to be left out on cool names. I don't like how my friend behaves in her relationship. She does whatever her boyfriend wants, it's like she's a slave. He says jump she'll ask how high. If he doesn't like her outfit, he'll tell her to go change, she won't even come hang out unless he allows it. I really want to pull her aside and tell her she doesn't need to act like this and do whatever he wants. He's not your dad.
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It's troubling to hear that trauma made you gay that's a bit unsettling.
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Hearing Ryan talk on the man up episode and him consistently showing his sensitive side kind of makes me wonder if he's never had men in his life that were strong stoic alpha men. I understand you don't like those terms but it's the best way I can describe what I'm getting at. You just seem to identify with so many characteristics that are (I'm sorry) but beta. Take a step back and try to look at the situation from another point of view maybe you will get a better grasp of this school of thought.
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Ryan mentioned that different ideas ideologues can go into being a man. Should we allow women to add to those ideas or help to find those ideas because a lot of women are defining what a man is and I feel that isn't or shouldn't be the case
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People should avoid violence it makes the world a better place, but when violence is needed it should be applied. If you are someone who can't handle violence words of advice. Try your best never to disrespect someone, never start violence and be as kind as possible. People who say violence isn't the answer, but quick to anger someone to violence are problematic people and should be thrown away.
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Ben mentioned the Paradox of choice and I've actually read that study. I don't know if you meant to say women struggle with having choices, but I wholly agree with that statement. Women can't decide where to go, can't decide to leave an area when they're uncomfortable, can't decide to say no about something. Women just saw men having multiple choice and wanted what men had. Now they have it, it's to much and they want to complain about it.
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Everything seems to be very black and white with Charles. It needs to be understood that some circumstances are made difficult whether it's because of knowledge, upbringing, bad life decisions,, whatever. Women have to get their lives together faster than men if they don't then it's going to be devastating repercussions in their lives. If both genders understand the process of the other gender then it would be easier for them to understand each other's problems
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1.2% college-level players will get drafted to the NFL, but again Ben trails off into what is not being talked about. Those kids use those sports scholarships to have the chance to go to college. No kid is going around saying I want to be a famous athlete. Shaming people for choosing a profession is pretty pathetic. I believe your real issue is you can't play sports and don't have any athletic ability. I've listened to a number of past episodes and you've talked **** about athletes before. I don't know why you think your profession is better than anyone else's, but here are some statistics: 210,000 jobs in sports in cities where sport teams are. Teams with sport teams generate over 2.5 million dollars a year in tickets alone. Ask yourself what your profession generates.
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Is transgenderism the epitome of white privilege
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With the disabled teenager at what age do you feel she should be held accountable for her actions?
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There's a book called how to destroy a man. It's been on sale for 3 - 4 years. How are Men supposed to believe women and want to help women when there's a book that literally tells women how to destroy us.
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To the men why is it you all will drag on a relationship without a title.
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This is why I hate online dating especially bumble. Women weren't making the first move on bumble so now they added a like button function and that counts as the first move. Women think technology can beat biology. If you think about it this is supposed to be centered around women and men still have to lead the way.
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If you are a women in your late 30s or early 40s and you are not married, but has been trying to get married? How can you not say something might be wrong with her?
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I date women very much not attractive and know if I talk to them they'll put out. Is that coercion?
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Why are you telling young athletes they shouldn't strive to be a professional athlete. Can you make it make sense?
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I don't understand how pressuring a girl to have sex is sexual assault, coercion or anything. Why can't they just leave or go home.
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I like how all you acknowledged married women with kids, but chose to completely forget about the women who are single. Maybe we are reporting unhappiness because we are working are ass off making no money to take care of ourselves while our married friends split bills. Maybe we are complaining there aren't any marriagable men and we're worried all we'll be is a cool aunty. Let's try and look at the root cause instead of assigning blaming to everything under the sun.
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Listening to that man up episode was very interesting and gripping, but it is disturbing that a group of men see someone being harassed man or woman and allow it to happen. It was just alarming to hear that and might make sense why men see the mistreatment of women and pretend like they didn't see anything.
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**** by deception, If passed the way they want, men will be locked up in droves by spiteful women.
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Someone could say I felt scared so I just did what they asked. People will say men especially black men are intimidating. How do you police someones fear because each person fears a different thing.
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Ryan said if you don't tell someone that you feel uncomfortable by another co-worker in the work place it's not sexual harassment. Then turns around and says it's okay for women to report 20 yr old situations that happen. Different standards for different genders.
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I take exception to the statement that members of the red pill community have been outed as being bad people or toxic. Name these people who are they. We are a community of people who talk to men about being traditional men, how to raise strong men, income and job, how to date and find the right females. You are rambling off theories and YouTube links you saw.
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