The Awkward Dreadhead Podcast
General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: icahanotu on January 16, 2022, 09:37:30 am
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New to the podcast thank you for accepting me. I'm trans male. I actually get angry when people try to pretend that there isn't male or women behaviors. You're full of **** because my life is all male. I don't wear a dress, that's what women do. Men can wear dresses but most of them will act like women when they do. I just think you're trying to be insulting and cause an unnecessary argument where there isn't one. Grow up
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Please read my comment. Speaking of trans men changing certain spaces. What about female sport reporters changing the way many of these sport shows are. Many of them haven't played the game and critic it like they did
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I don't know Charles, but I listen to the program enough I feel. Calling yourself an alpha doesn't make you an alpha.
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In a general sense I feel like Ryan is right, but I'm being honest would I date a man who exhibits beta like behavior? No, I'm it's just not cute seeing men act feminine or emotional. Sorry guys.
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I work with this trans dude and this mother fucker is a dude. Hands down. We all **** with him. Either man up and be a dude or take your **** as to the all pink aisle.
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I listen so much of you guys. I love your talks. I would like to tell my story. I was raised in a single mother household and we were poor. I met my dad when I was 17 and he told me my mom had him on child support so he was paying but she was to much drama to deal with. Fast-forward to me 34 having a child out of wedlock, being put on child support and the drama of trying to see my child and pay money. My dad paid child support and we were still poor, I have emotional issues that I think stem from him not being there. We talk sometimes but I believe he just wants to focus on the family in front of him. It's very emotional when you guys bring up child support because I would die right now to of had my father with me in my elementary, middle school and high school years to teach me things, show me things. My mom did what she could but I needed my dad. My mom couldn't teach me the things my father could have. If child support is preventing family from coming together then stop it, just stop it. You only care about yourself and you're selfish if you rather have child support vs the father in their life.
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People who use the term fat are they toxic as well or is it toxic just to use terms that offend you?
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So question. Why do I have to be so sneaky on a date talking about sex to a female?
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Ben? what are the traits of an alpha male that is toxic?
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Damn it Ryan, you literally proved Charles right by getting upset calling betas, betas
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There are definitions in the world. Everyone knows what an alpha is, everyone knows what a beta is. It doesn't matter if it came from a study that is no longer supported. We have created definitions. Society has taken words and defined them as such don't get mad at the people who use them. Second don't be mad if you're what they describe as a beta. Nothing is wrong with being beta but because beta is used to describe men who either lack masculine energy or adopts feminine characteristics some men take it offensive. If that's who you are just except it. Stop Being A ****
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I'm not dating an emotional man that's cringe and pathetic.
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I agree with child support on a EBT card because then shame will come with that and women won't be out here having a bunch of kids.
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I understand I might change the dynamics of a particular space, but why should I have to suppress my emotions like cis men.
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I hate to tell you this Ryan but if someone is calling you a beta as an insult and you're being passive aggressive about it or not really confronting it then you are by definition a beta and shouldn't get mad about it.
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I'm highly confused. If men gather and are looking for sex. And a group of transmen come into the group trying to make friends or have conversation. Isn't that transmen changing the dynamics? Why are you making it complicated.
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I was called a nerd some weeks ago and it was levied at me as an insult. The way he said it was offensive but I can't get mad about what I am.
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I reckon suppressing your emotions isn't always a bad thing so please transgender people and women stop telling us how we should maintain our emotions.
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I'm an alpha, female, I'd take Ryan home and take that ass to task.
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This was brushed aside but can single mothers raise men? I get they can raise a child but can she teach a boy how to be a man?
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I was married for 8 years. Last two years of it was horrible, when we got a divorce she said I abused her and tried her damnest to keep me away from my kids. So Ryan don't act like you can forecast your marriage. Someone can be amazing and then change on you.
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Ryan was smoking on some hot bullshit. You're going to marry someone and if they **** you over remember what you said about being picky about who you marry.
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I have 3 possibly 4 **** buddies I mess with. If she had **** buddies I'd de-value her because women's decisions in sex impact them more than men's decisions in sex.
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Transgender men and biological men are the same but it seems like Ryan holds different standards for transgender males. I don't know whether you do this on purpose but you guys take simple **** questions and make them complicated. Jeez **** sake
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Charles says only beta males get mad when this discussion is brought up. 5 mins later Rhan gets mad that it's brought up. Nobody called you a beta Rhan.
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Let me also point this out. Transgender men and biological women are the only people running around using terms like demisexual, sapoisexual all these pointless terms to describe something. Dare I say those are feminine traits?
..and women who come into grindr using terms like gender fluid, trans masculine like **** this grindr is you **** or not.
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One thing I've experienced on grindr as a dude. If I go on there, my first message is " you looking for now or just conversation" most guys I'd say 95% are looking for now which means ****. 97% of Trans men will say they are looking for conversation or just not answer. That's the different dynamic they bring. If you don't deal with transgender people on a romantic, relationship or sexual level I feel you should stop talking.
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If I like men who are assertive, head strong, go after it, leaders, what people would consider alpha am I dating a toxic person?
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Funny thing about man **** is females definitely know what it is when the bill comes on the first date, when they need to move furniture, plumbing, fixing a car. Females never know what man **** is in a debate only when it benefits them.
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Well here you go. https://news.yahoo.com/mother-teachers-manipulated-child-change-231122125.html
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Isn't gossiping something women do? Isn't that women ****? Had to fast forward that vexing piece of audio.
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Here's a thought. If you're a emotional, sensitive man. Go hang with men who are emotional and sensitive with you. If I think you're a **** I can think that. If you think I'm a ****....okay. Difference is I'm a man I can hold my own, you're a **** who will start getting emotional.
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Can Jamale tell me where he gets his proof that people are being forced to be trans? You think Ryan's an ally but he jumps in and out the window so much you never know.
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Yes Chelsea. I do want sex and I don't want to move some furniture around to get it.
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What do men need women for in a friendship? Good **** question. I'll sit here and wait for Jessica and the tap dance squad.
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Men send dick pics right Ryan? That's what men do right? All of a sudden you act ignorant when when asked what's man ****. Stop with that ****.
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Yes Chelsea we get it, they are trying to live their lives...blah, blah, blah. Nobody said anything about stopping their lives.
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I believe you are being disingenuous when you say you don't understand what male **** is. I can't say what it is but I know it when I see it. How about this, if you go into a space where men are and you are just being you great. If you go into a male space changing the vibe then don't get pissed if people don't accept you. Pretty simple. Describing what male **** is and what women **** I agree is a fog in the air but still we know it when we see it and if you don't, go into that area and try to change it and see what the results are.
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You were talking in circles Charles but if Ryan wants to say people have different definitions of what a man is fine. The main issue of this topic is what Jamal said. People changing the dynamic of spaces. If you don't want to say man **** say exhibiting certain behaviors. The terms mean nothing the act does. If certain individuals present this behavior then peace.
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I guess because the term man stuff was used people want to start breaking it into something it's not. Use whatever term you'd like but men and women have different behaviors. Men and women aren't walking around acting the same.
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Women are good listeners and can give you advice about certain things. Harsh reality that women don't offer much in a friendship though.
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I believe you are being disingenuous when you say you don't understand what male **** is. I can't say what it is but I know it when I see it. How about this, if you go into a space where men are and you are just being you great. If you go into a male space changing the vibe then don't get pissed if people don't accept you. Pretty simple. Describing what male **** is and what women **** I agree is a fog in the air but still we know it when we see it and if you don't, go into that area and try to change it and see what the results are.
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Using the exception to the rule to say not all transmen act emotional or feminine is stupid in any case. Either they mostly do or don't and if they mostly act like females then that's what it is. Who cares if one out 10 act like a man. That fact is they mostly act like females and some dudes don't like that vibe around them. Also, didn't you say you'd stop talking about trans ****!!!
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I'm a transgendered male and I actually try and augment my behavior male. I'm not oblivious to the fact that I might behave feminine but I'm not trying to. I want to fit in with my bros. I also believe it's the people you hang around. I don't have many dude friends most of my friends are trans so it's like where do I get my example.
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Just because something wasn't explained the best doesn't mean it's not valid. I'm a female and I believe dynamics change when different sexes walking in. This is a weird debate.
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My English is bad but I put it in Google translate forgive me hope it comes out correct. That whole dynamics conversation was confusing because it was all over the place. I get what Charles is saying I think. Females come where guys are and they are sensitive get offended and become emotional vs some girls who are cool with whatever conversation is being had. I assume you're correlating trans men acting like women to that. I see. I agree.
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I understand what you mean about trans-men coming on grindr wanting to just talk. It is very annoying but seriously there's plenty of dudes on grindr ready to ****. Bypass the talky trans dudes and just go to the regular dudes, no big deal. To start some **** I also agree trans-men don't really act like men. At most they might come off like a feminine gay guy.
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I never **** comment. Never but I'm getting sick and tired of the trans conversation. **** Chelsea we get it **** accept them. Accepting them isn't the problem, it's them trying to change what dudes are. Example what if men don't want to groom men to be sensitive or emotional? Is that toxic masculinity or is it just how someone wants to raise their child. Not saying tell men to suppress their feelings but even men who suppress their feelings sometimes that's a good trait. Handling a situation and not letting your feelings or emotions get the best of you. I'm sorry I'm rambling ony phone but I'm 49. I raise my son how what I think it's best. If I raise him to be a good kid but to be strong mentally and emotional there's nothing wrong with that. This reminds me of the statement beta men get mad when they are called beta men. Emotional sensitive men get touchy when strong minded men say stop acting like a girl or a **** because those attributes are what's associated with women.
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What's that saying, "she can hang with the boys". Answer what that means and you get the definition of man ****.
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If a group of men don't want a sensitive dude hanging around them than I'm confused what's the issue. I guess you can make an excuse "hey be tolerant of sensitive men" but people don't have to be forced to change cause you are different
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There are trans people who will look at someone and because they don't look trans they won't accept. I truly don't like the trans community because they are not as inclusive as they force others to be
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