Charles have you heard of the term The Man-Box” — the idea that there is one “right” way to be a man, while marginalizing others who are different than that idealized man. There are different types of men and they all have their place. That being said if women don't want to date sensitive men, transmen, beta men, the new style of men then they don't have to. I'm not dating a guy who wants me to pay his bills or a guy who isn't stoic. Sorry.