This is a common thread of people not caring about men and what they feel. I've been married for going on 20 years with two kids. I don't want to be in this marriage anymore. I don't hate my wife, but I wish I could move on. I can't though so I have to put on a face and stick through for my kids. My life is boring, work, home, kids activities on the weekend then back to work. My life is mundane. Communication got it, we've done that and nothing has changed. Only space I can share my thoughts with is a private facebook group with other men having the same feelings.