The Awkward Dreadhead Podcast

Another dating POD

This is a phenomenon that has been brought up for many decades but never really spoken about publicly. Men losing the sensation they feel when having sex with a long time partner. Their mind is not warped, nothing is wrong with them they have just been with their individual partner for so long that they no longer feel sensation when having sex with that partner. Please do not shame these men about this. I am a doctor and I also counsel men about marriage and this topic is something that comes up often. There's usually nothing that can be done. Some wives get vaginal reconstruction, but we don't have the statistics to say it works and the woman has to be willing to do it. I would also like to add that the individual named Ben has a very pompous attitude that he knows everything. If you haven't been in a long term relationship which it sounds like you never have I'd sit this one out.

This goes to several points you guys touched on. A prenup should have to be signed in all marriages to force individuals to speak about finances. Just because someone is exciting and sexually fun doesn't make them a good spouse. I'm not marrying a chick with a high body count. I find it disgusting women who are having flings. I believe a woman should find herself sexually with her husband or at best long term boyfriend. At that very same breath women who are horrible in bed is worst than bed bugs so you have to learn how to ride that line.

This thinking dismantles the traditional idea of marriage because you shouldn't be given an easy out to leave. You should be forced to stay and work it out.

Whoever Amanda is should use a less divisive word than misogynistic. That means you hate women. I'm pretty sure Charles doesn't hate women?

Thank you Abby for bringing up how shitty men talk about their wives as if wives aren't so acid with the tongue about their husbands.

My body count is high and I regret it because it does effect how men look at me. One thing I'll admit is women won't tell you the truth then you get out in the world and you see what it's really like.

Inherently there's nothing different between a man bringing in 100k vs a woman bringing in 100k. But the thing is most women aren't bringing the bacon like there husband. You said it yourself Ryan women aren't working the high paying jobs so yes it doesn't matter who brings in the money just make sure that the one who isn't making money they handle the house.