A friend of mine and I went on a group trip with a bunch of other friends. Somehow we ended up in the same room and him sleeping in the bed. We were both inebriated but not to the point we were falling off drunk. I was kind of cuddling with him and him cuddling back with me. He asked me can he eat me out, I said No I'm not trying to do that. He then said what's wrong with two friends doing something. I said personally I don't want to have that type of situation with you and that was that, he stopped asking. As a woman you can simply say no and that is it, making excuses of why you didn't say anything is you trying to use the female privilege we have. It doesn't matter whether you were confused or whatever the case may be. If something happened and you did not address it in the time it was being done who are you to come back afterwards and start making judgment calls when you didn't make that judgment call at the time of the event. Whenever I hear women make these excuses it clear to me that women behave like children and don't know how to take responsibility for their actions. A man cannot do something and then fall back on "oh woe is me, I am a man I didn't know any better" I teach my son's about these women and more mother's and father's need to.
