What do you consider a friend Charles. I think I get what you're saying but it's a thin line. Be honest with one's self. Does this person have your phone number, are they just Facebook friends, are they in a relationship with someone you know. That being said there are some girls who are just the homies. I think Charles is right but it really depends on the situation. Every girl I'm "friends" don't call or text me on a normal basis. We are friends but not close friends.